On a journey to find authentic love in your own way - tips to attract happy encounters!

"I want to meet someone I can love all my heart someday."

You are never the only one who wishes this way. Impossible love that will color your life. That may be a word that has a special resonance for us women.

But don't be impatient. Real love is never something you can get in a hurry. It is grown over time, like a slowly aged wine.

Step by step tips for finding real love and building a happy relationship.

Donbei

I want to meet someone I love with sincerely

Step 1: First, time to face yourself deeply

Have you ever heard the saying, "People who can't love themselves can't love others"? This holds a very important truth in love. Start by understanding yourself deeply and filling yourself with love.

Let's go on a journey to find yourself

1. When do you feel excited? What do you find most enjoyable when you're doing? Have you ever loved it since you were a child or have always wanted to try it?
   
2. Let's talk to your own mind while looking back on past experiences. By clarifying what you like, what you are good at, and what you value, you will be able to clearly see your own outline.

Using past love as a source of growth

1. Have you ever regretted or didn't go well in a past relationship? The painful experience is never in vain.
   
2. "Why did I end up breaking up with that person at that time?" "What could I learn from that relationship?"
   
3. By analyzing calmly, you can learn lessons to avoid repeating the same mistakes. Make past love life a great way to step up your next love life.

Make your own instruction manual

1. My strengths, weaknesses, things I like, dislike, things I can't give up, values ​​I value... Try writing it out in words, just like you're creating your own "instruction manual."
   
2. Understanding yourself is the first step to increasing self-esteem and becoming confident in your relationship.

Clearly what you want to be

1. What kind of person do you want to be? Are you the one who shines at work? Are you a person who values ​​your family? Are you able to make the people around you smile?
   
2. By creating a concrete image of the person you want to be, your daily actions and choices will change. It will bring out your charm even more and will help you attract wonderful encounters.

Pon

I'm a strange guy so I need an instruction manual

Step 2: Open the door to encounters and expand the world

Once you have a deeper understanding of yourself, the next step is to open the door to encounters. Just staying still at home won't bring you a wonderful encounter.

Proactively approaching a "place for meeting"

1. Are you spending your days going back and forth between work and your home? Try to be more proactive and go out to new places.
   
2. Cafes, bars, events, hobby clubs, volunteer activities... There are surely some people who are in the same wavelength as you in the place that interests you.

Make use of the online world as well

1. Some people may be reluctant to say, "Matching apps are a bit...." However, if you use it while taking safety into consideration, you can efficiently expand your chances of meeting people.
2. Create your profile thoroughly and actively search for people who have common hobbies or have similar values.

Expand your circle of friends and get introduced

1. Tell your friends that you want a lover. Because you are a friend who knows you very well, you may be able to introduce you to the perfect person for you.
   
2. If you meet through referrals from friends, you will also feel secure in having a mutual acquaintance.

From "passive" to "send"

1. Shift from a passive attitude of "waiting for a wonderful person to appear" to a communicative attitude of "actively seeking encounters yourself."
   
2. By taking action on your own, your "animals of encounters" will become more sensitive to your reaction.

Green

Lots of friends and lots of meetings. I will do my best. lol

Step 3: The magic that nurtures encounters into "love"

Once you have attracted a wonderful encounter, it's your turn to cultivate that encounter into "love." Don't panic, but slowly deepen your relationship.

Cherish your first impression

1. The impression you have when you meet someone for the first time has a major impact on your relationship. Make sure to wear clean clothes, smiles, cheerful voices, and polite language.
   
2. It is important to give a good impression that will make you think, "I'd like to see this person again."

"Good listeners" are popular!

1. Instead of talking about yourself, try to listen carefully to what other people are saying. By nodding, listening to what the other person says and showing empathy, they will open up to you.
   
2. You can liven up the conversation by asking questions about what the other person likes and interests.

Find commonalities and deepen affinity

1. Finding common topics is a magic that helps to close the two of them. Favourite music, movies, travel, food... Once you find commonalities, your conversation will naturally thrive and you will feel an affinity.
   
2. If you have a common hobby, having fun together will deepen your bond.

Show yourself as you are

There's no need to force yourself to "see better." By revealing yourself as you are, the other person will feel safe and show you your true self.

It's because you're not adorable that your partner is attracted to you.

Take your time and develop a relationship

1. There's no need to panic to become a lover as soon as you meet them. First, as friends, slowly deepen your relationship.
   
2. Understanding each other well and building trust is the key to fostering long-lasting love.

Oguri

I want to raise my love score even more. lol

Step 4: What is genuine love?

What exactly does "real love" mean? It may be different for each person. However, what we can say in common is that we can connect in deep parts of our hearts.

Mutual understanding and respect

1. It is important to understand and respect each other's values ​​and ways of thinking. Although there may be conflicting opinions at times, it is important to try to understand the other person's feelings.
2. Recognizing each other's independent individuality, "You are you, I am" is the basis for building a good relationship.

Trust and security

1. A relationship where you can trust each other and open your hearts with peace of mind is proof of genuine love. Make sure to communicate honestly and without lies or hidden things.
   
2. When it's tough, it's the true partner that can give you a sense of security, that you can support each other and that will give you a sense of security.

A relationship where we can grow together

1. A relationship where we can improve each other and grow together is a form of love that lasts forever. Those who recognize your weaknesses and encourage growth are the right partner for life.
   
2. It is very important to feel that "being with this person will help you grow too."

Unconditional love

1. Unconditional love, not "love because he does something," but "love you as you are," is what true love is.
   
2. It is important to have a tolerant heart that allows you to love not only the good points of the other person but also the flaws.

Hana

Real love sounds good, I want to get it this year. lol

Finally, to you

We've given you some tips for finding "real love." But the most important thing is to make yourself happy.

Don't rush, slowly, and at your own pace, attract happy encounters.

I sincerely hope that you will be surrounded by "real love" and spend your days full of smiles.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.