Let go of your high hopes and build a new love

Let go of your high hopes and become a loved one

What kind of love do you dream of? A heart-pounding encounter, a heart-pounding time, and a warm bond that makes you want to be with us forever.

I'm sure everyone is looking for such a wonderful love. But in reality, things don't go as planned.
"I can't find my ideal partner," "I always end up having the same love life.
" "I feel like I can't always be happy..."

If you feel that way, why not stop for a moment and face your heart? Perhaps the thing that's hindering your love is a small curse called "high hopes."

we will tell you a gentle magic that will
help you unleash the curse of high hopes and Don't panic, just take a look at it slowly and together.

Brown

I'm the ideal prince, I can't compromise on it - I wonder why lol

Why do you have high hopes?

First of all, what exactly is "high expectations"?
It involves seeking perfect partners, just like the main character in a movie, or expecting only things that are convenient for you.

"A wonderful person like a prince will appear and make me happy,"
"I want someone who understands everything about me and is always kind to me,"
and you can't help but imagine your ideals like this.

But why do we have such high hopes?・The reason may vary from person to person.

1. The wounds of past love and the experiences of past love may lead to a stronger desire to "never want to fail next time," and may lead to a higher ideal.
   
2. Complexes: When you feel that you lack self-confidence, you may find yourself looking for someone special who will love you even if you are a person like this.
   
3. When you see your friends and your friends having a wonderful relationship, you may be panicking, thinking, "I have to have a better relationship too."
   
4. It may be that they are influenced by the media's influence and romantic depictions of dramas and films, which leads to unrealistic ideals.

These reasons can sometimes hide your heart, like heavy armor. But it's okay.

You can strip off that armor and enjoy love more lightly.

The sad reality of high hopes

"High-Look" may seem sparkling, like a lovely gem.
But in reality, they are a bit of awkward being that can make our love ache.。

This is what happens when you fall in love while still having high hopes.

1. You will no longer be able to see the good points of the other person. If you do not fit into your ideal partner, you will no longer be able to see the good points of the other person, and you will only notice flaws.
   
2. I'm always feeling dissatisfied, no matter how wonderful I meet someone, I always feel dissatisfied, thinking, "Something's not true" or "I wish it was this way."
   
3. Because love is not progressing very often or because of an ideal that is too expensive, you may miss out on opportunities to meet people, or even if a good person appears, it is difficult to deepen your relationship.
   
4. You can sometimes blam yourself, blaming yourself, saying, "Why can't I see my ideal person?" and lose confidence in your love life.
   
5. You may feel lonely and as you continue to pursue your ideal partner, you may feel less connected to the people around you and feel lonely.

Pon

It was like he had wandered into a maze, and the exit was no longer visible.
Have you ever had that experience?

A gentle magic to capture a happy love

But it's okay now. From here on, we will tell you some special magic that will help you grasp a happy love. These magical magic is never difficult.
Try it little by little, slowly, at your own pace.

Magic 1: Magic that loves yourself

First and foremost, the most important thing is to love yourself and accept and accept yourself as you are.

1. I hope you will find yourself loving, including my good and bad points, "This is me." Find what you like: Write down three things you like in your notebook every day. Forgive yourself in the past, accept that past failures and regrets were important experiences and forgive yourself.
   
2. Acknowledge your hard work and praise yourself for working hard every day. Please gently say to me in your heart, "You did a great job today as well."
   
3. Give yourself a reward, eat what you like, go out where you like, or give yourself a reward. Make time to cherish yourself, take a leisurely bath, listen to your favorite music, and make time to cherish yourself.

Once you can love yourself, your heart will be filled and you will no longer be too concerned about how others will appreciate you.
This will naturally lead you to become an attractive person.

Hayashi

I might need self-love, I'll try it out. lol

Magic 2: Magic that rethinks your ideal partner

Next, let's take a look at your ideal partner.

To let go of "high hopes" does not mean to abandon your ideals.
However, it is about changing it into a more realistic and warm ideal.

1. Instead of choosing based on values ​​rather than conditions, or focusing on conditions such as appearance or occupation, try to emphasize whether the values ​​match.
   
2. No one is perfect, but you'll find someone you can grow with: No one has no flaws. Look for someone who respects each other and grows with them.
   
3. Not only should you look, but also your inner charm, such as a kind heart, integrity, and compassion. Believe in your intuition and cherish your intuition and feel that "this person is nice."
   
4. Don't take your friends' opinions too much, and even if your friends say, "This person is good," if you don't feel that way, there's no need to force yourself to go along with them.
   
5. "Being with this person warms my heart," and "being with this person makes me feel like I can be myself." Perhaps the person I really need is someone who feels like.

Me

When I grow up, I only look at money. It's about balance, I'll regret it a little lol

Magic 3: Magic that allows you to enjoy communication

Communication is very important in fostering love. By understanding and respecting each other's feelings, we can build a deeper, warm bond.

1. Express your feelings honestly and don't be embarrassed, try expressing your feelings in words.
   
2. Listen carefully to the other person's story. Listen to the other person's story and show an attitude of empathy.
   
3. Express your love not only through words, but also through attitudes. Express your love through other methods than words, such as smiles, gentle words, or skinship.
   
4. Express your gratitude and cherish the words "thank you."
   
5. Sometimes, trying to be pampered or being pampered with is one way to deepen your love.
   
6. Respect the other person's opinions and not just impose your own opinions on them, but also respect the other person's opinions.
   
7. Sometimes, fights may also be necessary and fighting may help you to understand each other more deeply and deepen your bond.
   
8. By cherishing communication, you should be able to open up to each other and develop deeper love.

Hayashi

I'm probably not listening to my boyfriend because I'm all about myself~ Sorry, my boyfriend

Magic 4: Magic that doesn't panic

Love is not something to grasp in a hurry.
It is something that you will nurture slowly and slowly over time.

1. Don't panic to meet people - Believe that someday you will surely find a wonderful encounter.
   
2. Even if you don't hurry to fall in love or don't become lovers immediately after meeting them, slowly deepen your relationship.
   
3. Even if things don't go well, don't be depressed or learn from your mistakes, and use them for the next step.
   
4. Even if you don't blame yourself or go wrong, don't blame yourself and take a good rest.
   
5. Love isn't everything, and cherish your time outside of love. Enjoy your hobbies and time with friends.
   
6. People don't compare themselves to others. Everyone has their own pace. Instead of comparing yourself to others, go at your own pace.

Hana

Don't rush, just enjoy your love slowly and at your own pace. By unlocking magic, unlocking the curse called Takamami, becoming a beloved me, and gradually practicing these magics, you will surely become a beloved me. Instead of seeking the perfect partner, trust in meeting warm people who will love you as you are. May your heart be filled with love and happiness.
I'm always rooting for you.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.