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How to build a comfortable relationship to get along well with men

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To develop a comfortable relationship

To develop a comfortable relationship

When you hear "good dating men," it may seem a little difficult. But that's not something to "fit with men" or "hold up." Instead, build a warm relationship where we can cherish and respect each other. It's like a relationship where two puzzles come together in perfect harmony.

To do this, let's start by taking care of ourselves. If you can love yourself, you will surely be able to take the same care of the other person. Furthermore, the most important thing is to be yourself, rather than pushing yourself to fit in with the other person. ma

Donbei

Akane has the information she needs, so I'll have fun reading it. lol

1. Communication - Connecting with words and heart

Communication is an important bridge for people to connect with each other. In order to build a warm relationship with a man, not only words, but also facial expressions, attitudes, and heartfelt interactions are important.

The magic of words - to convey "good"

Women may want to understand without having to put into words. However, men often find it difficult to notice unless they are expressed in words. So, if there's anything you want to say, don't hesitate to say it in words. It would be easier for the other person to understand if you were to say specifically, not just "I'm tired today," but "I had XX today and I'm a little tired."

Telling "thank you" and "love you"

If you find something nice, try saying "thank you" and if you find something wonderful, try saying "thank you" in words. Words of gratitude warm the other person's heart, just like magic. For example, try expressing your honest feelings by saying things like, "Thank you for listening to me all the time" or "I love that smile."

Tell your feelings "sensibly"

If you feel sad or slightly unhappy, instead of expressing your feelings emotionally, take a deep breath and try talking calmly. Rather than blaming someone for saying, "When I was XX, I thought this was what I wanted you to do," it's probably easier for the other person to understand your feelings, rather than blaming them for saying, "Why is this always the case?"

I ask, "Hey, what do you think?"

If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. Asking questions will convey the desire to "know you" to the other person, and the conversation will be more enjoyable. For example, ask them with interest, such as, "What do you think about XX?" or "Can you tell me a little more in detail?"

Sharing feelings like "Me too"

Try to share your thoughts and feelings with others. Of course, it would be great if we could respect the other person's opinions and exchange fun opinions so that each other can think, "I see!" For example, try to share your feelings and listen to the other person's opinions by saying, "This is what I think about XX, what do you think?"

Oguri

I've been feeling a little unspeakable lately, so I'm sorry. Sorry boyfriend　

It's not just words, it's a sign of the heart

"Hello" with a smile - a smile conveys the other person a sense of security and a sense of happiness. When listening, try smiling from time to time to tell them you are interested in what they are talking about. On the other hand, a gross look or expressionless face can make the other person a little anxious. Try to treat them with a gentle smile as much as possible.

Let's talk "looking at the eyes"

Looking at the eyes is a wonderful way to convey your feelings of "I'm listening to you properly." Of course, if you keep staring at them all the time, the other person may feel a little nervous, so make gentle eye contact and talk.

"With your whole body"

A lazy attitude may make the other person think, "Are you not listening?" By straightening your spine, turning towards the other person and listening, you can tell the other person that you are interested in what you are talking about.

Try using "gestures"

If you are interested in what someone is saying, lean in a bit or nod your answer, and listen to your whole body saying "Yes, yes." Try to refrain from doing slightly defensive attitudes such as crossing your arms or crossing your legs as this may make your opponent wary.

"Tone of the Voice" is also important

The tone of your voice is very important in conveying emotions, just like music. By speaking in a calm and gentle tone, you can bring peace of mind to the other person. Also, speaking in a fast, straightforward manner may make the other person tired, so try to speak slowly and in a gentle voice.

I like "small" differences and straightness of men

Men often prefer straightforward speech rather than intuitive. Rather than trying to understand, "Maybe this is what it means?" it may be easier to understand the other person if you clearly say, "I want you to do it."

Hayashi

Men don't really understand the psychology of women, so it's easier to understand if they talk straight away. lol

I want to know the conclusion

Men sometimes want to know their conclusions in conversation. You might get a little bored of the story if you don't get a conclusion because it's too long. If you say, "It's about XX, but the conclusion is..." and then say it first, it may be easier for the other person to listen to.

Expressing emotions is a bit difficult

Some men may not be good at expressing their emotions in words. Don't think, "I don't have the feeling because I don't say it in words," but take it in your heart with a gentle attitude, thinking, "I'm sure he thinks that way."

I want to think logically

Men may prefer to think logically rather than emotions. Rather than just talking emotionally, it might be a good idea to explain logically, "This is why I think this way."

Cherish your pride

Many men may value pride. Avoid warning or criticizing people in public, and listen gently. It is also important to choose words to avoid damaging the other person's self-esteem.

Donbei

Men are simple, but maybe that's what's cute!

2. Differences are made into "treasures" - respect each other

Because men and women are different, understanding and respecting each other's differences is the key to building a wonderful relationship.

The difference in values is interesting! Thoughts on work

Many men may find it rewarding for their work. However, many women want to value the balance between their work and their personal life. By understanding and respecting each other's feelings for their work, we should be able to build a better relationship.

How to use money

Many men may splurge a little if they want something. However, many women want to value their savings for the future. It is important to understand and respect each other's sense of money.。

Bonding with family

Many men may value their own family. However, many women want to cherish their bonds with their parents and siblings. By understanding and respecting each other's views on family, we should be able to build deeper relationships.

The "compass" of life

Many men may find it fun to achieve their goals. However, many women may value their connections with others and feeling happy. It is important to understand and respect each other's views on life.

Interest and interest are the "door" for each other

My hobby is nutrition for the heart

Many men may like sports and games, or are interested in cars. However, women have a variety of hobbies, including love for fashion, beauty, and music. By understanding and respecting each other's hobbies, you should be able to broaden your conversations and become more intimate. If you find a common hobby you can enjoy together, you might have a more enjoyable time.

"What you love" is the energy of the mind

Many men may enjoy spending time alone. However, many women enjoy spending time with others. It is important to understand and respect each other's "love." By knowing what the other person likes and having fun together, you will be able to connect your heart even more.

"Spices" of conversation

Men may like to talk about work, news topics, or talk about hobbies. However, women love to talk about relationships, emotions, and everyday events. By understanding each other's "favourite topics" and adjusting the balance of the conversation, you should be able to have a more enjoyable time.

Respect each person's "pace" - "speed" in love

Some men may consider the progress of their relationship a little bit from sexual relations. However, many women are surely placing importance on emotional connection and security. It is important to respect each other's pace and slowly develop love.

Decide on "timing"

Men may often make decisions fairly quickly. However, women often want to think carefully before making a decision. Respect each other's pace, listen carefully to the other person's opinions before making a decision together.

Oguri

Men are strange animals, I'm a selfish girl lol

3. Cherish "I" - Build an independent relationship

In order to build a comfortable relationship, it is important to be independent from each other. Instead of being dependent on someone, take care of yourself so that you can stand up for yourself.

The mind is "strong and supple"

Try to train your mind to control your emotions and stay calm at any time. Instead of being happy or sad about the other person's words or actions, try to accept it with a little more leeway, thinking, "Well, that's the case, isn't it?" When you're feeling sad or painful, don't force yourself to take it on your own, but talk to your trusted friends and family.

「Walk with your own feet

Earn money on your own and become financially independent, and it also leads to mental leeway. Economic independence should also lead to mental independence, allowing you to build more equal relationships.

Let's deliver "my voice"

Instead of being influenced by the opinions of others, value your own thoughts and opinions. Being able to express your own opinions clearly is very important in gaining trust from others. It would be great if you could not only assert your own opinions, but also respect the other person's opinions, and have constructive discussions.

Enjoy your own time

Enjoying time alone is an important time to take care of yourself. Get immersed in your hobbies and do what you love to refresh your mind and body. People who enjoy their time alone will surely look attractive to those around them.

4. Sometimes "Let me be spoiled"

Relying on others is important, and being independent is important, but sometimes it is also very important to be spoiled and relying on others. Men often feel happy when they are relied on by women, as they feel that they need them.

Let's "show" your weakness

It's fine if you don't always try to be perfect. When you're feeling sad or painful, try to honestly tell someone. Showing weakness is never embarrassing. Showing weakness should deepen the bond between the two of you.

Let's try "please"

If you're in trouble, don't hesitate to rely on someone. Being relied on will make the other person feel happy and say, "I am helping you." Of course, instead of relying on anything, try to do your best on your own as you can.

Become a "spoiled boy"

Sometimes, try to be selfish or pampered. Being spoiled will help the other person thinks they are "cute" and will deepen their love for you even more. However, it is important not to be too spoiled. Try to be modestly pampered so that it doesn't become a burden on the other person.

Pon

I see, I see, Mayu takes a plan to captivate her boyfriend. Ufufu

5. Improve yourself - cherish your mind and body

In order to build a comfortable relationship, it is important to first be satisfied. Because you value yourself, you can also value other people.

Make yourself "slitter"

Try to wear clothes that look "great" and look clean, and enjoy fashion that suits you. Make your own shine even better by ingenuity with makeup and hairstyles.

Inner is rich too

Expand your world by studying the fields you are interested in and trying new things. Learn knowledge and knowledge by reading books and watching movies. Let's value communication with people and get to experience various values.

Your body is in good health

Try to eat a balanced diet and try moderate exercise. Get plenty of sleep and give your mind and body a rest.

Let's "fluff" relieve stress

If you feel stressed, try to relieve it as soon as possible. Find a stress relief method that suits you and try it out. Enjoy your hobbies, talk with friends, go on a trip, and try out a variety of ways.

Hana

I'm a sparkly girl, but I want to improve myself more and be loved by my boyfriend~ I'll do my best lol

Summary: A relationship that connects the mind and mind

In order for women to get along well with men, it is important to first cherish themselves and build an independent relationship. It is important to respect each other, understand each other, and to continue to communicate with each other in a warmth. And sometimes being spoiled or relying on is also a spice to help build a good relationship.

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