What is a "difficult boy"? Its charm and mystery thoroughly explained!

What is a complicated boy? The basic characteristics reveal

What is the definition of "a complicated boy" and its background

　"An intimidating boy" refers to men who are sensitive and tend to have trouble with love and interpersonal relationships, despite being sensitive. It is mainly characterized by poor past experiences and self-esteem, leading to negative thoughts and actions. While they lack proactiveness in terms of love and are often not good at approaching them, there are moments when they look attractive from a delicate and gentle side. This is often the background to internal factors such as complex relationships and success supremacy in modern society, as well as past romantic trauma.

Common personality traits of "difficult boys"

　There are several common characteristics of the personality of a complicated boy. Negative thinking is deep-rooted and people tend to look at the bad side of things. Additionally, due to low self-esteem, you may not be able to feel confident and become more reluctant to take action. They are indecisive and often take time to make decisions, and can make people feel unreliable. On the other hand, she is also very sensitive and easily sympathetic to others' feelings, so her kindness and compassion are also a reason to sometimes gain support from women.

A complicated tendency that is manifested by behavioral patterns and casual habits

　"Anti-minded boys" have distinctive tendencies in their behavior and habits. For example, people often make undelicacy statements in front of people, or misread the atmosphere of the venue. Another characteristic is that when talking to women, they become more stance than necessary, resulting in unnatural interactions. Furthermore, due to her indecisive personality, everything takes time and often leads to postpone important decisions. These behavioral patterns often reveal the unique "difficult habits" that are unique to them, such as sudden negative comments being made in everyday conversation.

Psychology and inferiority complexes that compare themselves to others

　At the root of the psychology of a complicated man is the habit of comparing himself to others, which leads to a feeling of inferiority. In particular, by looking at the success and romantic experiences of those around you, you tend to feel feelings like, "I'm not enough for you" or "I'm not good." This habit of comparing can be further fostered by the development of social media and media. For example, when a friend sees a successful relationship or a career, he often ends up jealousy or losing confidence behind the scenes. However, these psychological aspects can be said to be the charm of their sensitive, self-improvement-oriented side.

What moments will they look fascinating?

　The moments when the complicated boys look attractive are those scenes where you can see their delicate sensibilities and kindness. At first glance, she may seem unreliable, but she may secretly care about others, or she may notice minor changes in someone and show an attitude of being close to them. Also, many women feel honest and sincerity at how they try to convey their feelings to themselves, despite their clumsy. Furthermore, their own pace and unique values ​​are seen as unique, unique aspects of their lives, and are seen as a special charm that other men have.

A thorough analysis of the psychology of complicated men! Get to the depths of that

Past romantic trauma may be affecting you

　It is not overlooked that past love experiences have had a major impact on understanding the characteristics and psychology of complicated men. In particular, experiences of hurt and failure in past relationships have reduced their self-esteem and are the factors that lead to timidity about love. They tend to drag one mistake more than necessary, and they may lose their willingness to love because they fear that they will hurt them the same way again. As a result, it is often difficult to move forward with a positive relationship and narrows your own possibilities.

Lack of confidence created by negative thinking

　Negative thinking is deeply rooted in the psychology of complicated men. This tendency affects every situation, from the smallest everyday events to love. Self-negative thoughts such as "I'm not going well anyway" and "I'm not attractive" have become a habit, and are a hit when trying new challenges and building relationships. This psychological state further reduces their self-esteem and causes them to appear as someone who is not confident about them.

The conflict between a delicate mind and a high desire for approval

　Many men with awkwardness may have sensitive sensitivity, but also have a high desire for approval. The conflicts that arise between these two traits make them even more "struggling." Although he has a strong desire to be recognized by those around him, he is so afraid of being hurt that he is reluctant to show his true self. As a result, you may be misunderstood or contradictory behaviour, causing friction in your relationship with others. Their sensitive care and backward attitudes that come from their lack of confidence are intertwined in complex ways, and there is always conflict within them.

Misunderstandings that are caused by poor self-expression

　One of the characteristics of a complicated guy is his poor self-expression. They often fail to put their feelings and intentions into words, and end up in silence or choosing to use roundabout expressions. Such a clumsy communication style can often lead to people around them feeling unfriendly or cold. However, in reality, most people think about a lot inside and wonder how to deal with the other person. Although this gap creates misunderstanding, they themselves have no way of solving the misunderstanding and are in a vicious cycle of becoming increasingly introverted.

Characteristics of complicated boys in love and how to conquer them

There are certain behaviors of shy, complicated boys in love

　Troubled boys are often very cautious and shy in love. For example, you tend to avoid approaching yourself at extreme levels. When you face the opposite sex, the number of words increases, and on the other hand, silence continues, which often makes communication awkward. It is also common to see that when you go on a date or get in touch, you may overthink whether the other person is feeling nuisance, and it takes time to take action. In this way, it is often not possible to have the courage to take a step forward in a relationship and miss out on the timing to close the gap with the other person.

How do you treat women? The trends and improvement points

　A characteristic of complicated men is that they are overly nervous about women or don't know how to distance themselves from the opposite sex. In addition, there are cases where the ideals of women are highly desired, or the fact that they cannot focus on realistic ways of dealing with them. This tends to make the approach vague, and as a result, it becomes difficult to convey interest. The key to improving this is to relax the stance of seeking perfection towards women and build friendly relationships first. Additionally, being aware of simple, natural conversations and having an attitude of understanding others will improve your communication.

How can you open up the hearts of a complicated boy?

　In order to open up a difficult boy's heart, it is important to first give him a sense of security. They often have low self-esteem and are more likely to hesitate to speak their true feelings if they are not sure that the other person will accept them. For them, it is better to maintain a pace that gradually closes the gap rather than a sudden approach. Additionally, by trying to be positive and gentle, you can gradually build a relationship of trust and open up your closed mind.

How to heal past wounds and give confidence

　Troubled boys often suffer from past love failures and trauma, which is what hinders them from their current romantic activities. In such cases, it is important to listen to their past experiences and show an attitude of accepting their feelings. In particular, you can relieve the burden on their hearts by saying empathetic words like "I understand how you feel." Also, providing opportunities to accumulate small success experiences and creating situations where you can feel confident in yourself is key to helping them grow.

Specific approaches to building relationships one step at a time

　It is important not to rush and take steps to build a relationship with a complicated guy. For example, at first, create conversation opportunities through common hobbies and topics, and deepen your trust with others. Additionally, while maintaining a moderate sense of distance, you can feel a sense of security by showing an attitude of "wanting to know about you." Furthermore, the key is to keep pace with the complicated men's pace. Rather than seeking sudden change, you will be able to develop a stronger bond with him by cherishing small steps and developing your relationship.

The charm and potential of a complicated boy

An attractive side due to unique sensibility

　Of the characteristics and psychology of a complicated boy, what is particularly noteworthy is his unique sensibility. They are sensitive to small details that others may not notice, and tend to capture things from their own unique perspective. For example, their deep obsession with art, music, or hobbies stand out, and often have values ​​that are slightly different from others. These unique sensibilities sometimes surprise and fascinate those around you. One of the fun things about interacting with "misleading men" is that they can discover new discoveries and perspectives by understanding their worldview.

A fusion of delicacy and kindness that cares about others

　Troubled boys are often so sensitive that they care too much about those around them, and kindness that cares about others. While he is not good at showing himself publicly, he also has the ability to sensitively sense small changes and emotional movements in other people. The kindness born from this delicacy is not something that tries to strongly appeal, but rather exudes naturally. While it seems like they are keeping a distance, they actually have a strong desire to cherish the people they really care about, so when they realize it, they may be attracted to their kindness.

Strength and the potential for growth to overcome adversity

　Troubled boys often have a negative side, but this is also the flip side of their sensitivity to adversity. When you are in a difficult situation, you often have the inner strength to think deeply and try to overcome it. The experiences and growth gained along the way can also enhance their appeal. It is because of the aspect of "disordering" that we can broaden our horizons about things in life and grow using adversity as a source of energy. Supporting this growth process could also help us build more bonds.

The true form that can be seen through time-consuming trust

　The type of guy who is so confused is the type who will reveal his true charm over time. At first, you may notice a passive, barrier-like attitude, but as the relationship of trust deepens, many will notice their purity and unbiased personality. By gradually opening up your mind over time, you will have more opportunities to be exposed to their true self and hidden potential. By not judging just by superficial impressions, but treating each other patiently creates a warmth in their relationship.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.