Meet yourself and find yourself a better place: a new chapter on how to find a match for women in their 40s and 50s

A journey to find a match for women in their 40s and 50s and weaving a peaceful future

Women in their 40s and 50s look forward to meeting new partners as they increase the depth and wealth of their lives. Looking for a matchmaking session with a calm mindset that is different from when you were younger seems to sail through the calm seas. Sting

Don't worry, cherish your own personality and weave a heart-pounding future. In this article, we will introduce in warm words tips for women in their 40s and 50s to help them find a match at their own pace and build a rich future.

Chapter 1: Time to talk to yourself to your heart's content – ​​carefully interpret the compass of your heart

Before embarking on a marriage-seeking journey, take time to deepen your own mind and have a conversation. It is an important time to carefully and gently look at what life you want to live and what you want in your marriage.

1.1 Listen carefully to the voice of your heart

1. The values ​​we have clearly cherished along the path we have walked so far, and the future we want to portray are surely rooted in our hearts. By reconfirming these things, you can continue to find a matchmaking experience that is more unique to you.
   
2. What is your most important thing: financial security, mental security, reliable partnerships, joy in enjoying life together, a warm family, and more?
   
3. Make a concrete image of your ideal lifestyle, whether you want to spend your time relaxing, enjoy a trip, be passionate about your work, or be immersed in your hobbies.
   
4. Make sure you clarify conditions that you cannot compromise on, such as conditions and values, personality, lifestyle, economic situation, health, and family structure.
   
5. By looking back on the joys and regrets you felt from past love experiences and past love, you can build a better future.
   
6. Self-understanding, objectively grasp your strengths and weaknesses, and deepen your self-understanding.
   
7. By verbalizing your anxiety about marriage and anxiety about marriage and questions about marriage, you can organize your feelings.
8. Think about your specific life plan, including your future life plan, where you will live after marriage, work, whether or not you have children, and caregiving.

1.2 Slowly, without rushing – move at your own pace

Unlike when looking for a matchmaking in your 40s and 50s, unlike when you were in your 20s or 30s, it is important to proceed at your own pace in a slow, relaxed manner.

1. Don't worry about your age - age is part of your charm. Don't worry about it and move on with confidence.
2. There is no perfect partner who doesn't pursue your ideals too much. Find the good points of the other person.
3. Consider various options and don't get into marriage, but consider various forms such as common-law marriage and partnership.
4. Don't compare yourself to others or compare yourself to others, and take care of your own pace.
   
5. If you're tired, don't take a rest or overdo it, and also incorporate rest.
   
6. Set specific goals, such as meeting X people within X months.
   
7. Enjoy your marriage search and not enjoy yourself or do your obligations.

Me

Matchmaking is possible regardless of age. Believe in yourself that you can get married.

Chapter 2: Expand your charm to the fullest – honed your own gem

Once you've faced yourself and interpreted the compass of your heart, it's your turn to bring out the most of your charms.

Women in their 40s and 50s have many charms that the younger generation has. Be confident and shine with that glow.

2.1 The Charm of Adult Women – The Inner Brilliance

Women in their 40s and 50s who have gained experience in life have a calm, inner-spread glow.

1. Intellectuality, knowledge and experience cultivated up until now will make your intelligence shine.
   
2. It has a kindness that envelops others, thanks to inclusiveness and kindness, and the experiences of life that envelops others.
   
3. He has calm judgment and calm judgment skills cultivated through experience.
   
4. Economic independence and independent economic capabilities provide confidence and ease.
   
5. It's attractive that you have established your own style and your own values ​​and style.
   
6. We have the ability to utilize past experiences and learn from past experiences to create a better future.
7. You are mentally mature in mental maturity, in terms of relationships and emotional control.

2.2 Improve what you like and what you are good at - Develop your own personality

What you like and what you are good at is the key to make your personality shine and attracting wonderful encounters.

1. Through common hobbies and hobbies, there is a possibility that you will become friends in a natural way.
   
2. Express yourself through self-expression and what you like and what you are good at.
   
3. By honing your confidence and what you like and what you are good at, you will gain confidence.
   
4. Conversation triggers and common hobbies help to keep the conversation going smoothly.
   
5. By enjoying the nutrition of the mind and what you love, your heart will be satisfied and you will be able to promote your marriage search in a more positive way.
6. By focusing on what you like and what you are good at, your self-esteem will increase your self-esteem.
   
7. By participating in networking and hobbies and events, you can expand your network.

2.3 Respect your work and economic strength - The brilliance of an independent woman

Financial independence is an important factor in achieving a life that is typical of you in your marriage.

1. Mental and economic stability provide mental leeway.
   
2. Independent and independent women look attractive to men.
   
3. Equal relationships and economic equality are the foundation of relationships where we can respect each other.
   
4. Expanding options and economic power will broaden your options in your post-marriage life and enable you to live a free life.
5. A sense of security and financial stability gives the other person a sense of security.
   
6. By achieving self-esteem and work results, you can increase your self-esteem.
   
7. Through connections with society and work, you can maintain your connection with society.

Oguri

Independent women are attractive from a woman's perspective. Let's raise our self-esteem.

Chapter 3: In search of wonderful encounters – Start on a heart-pounding journey

Once you have maximized your charm, you finally set out on a journey of heart-pounding encounters. New encounters will enrich your life.

3.1 To an exciting place ・To matchmaking parties and events

Matchmaking parties and events are perfect meeting places where people with the same goal gather.

1. At events for people in their 40s and 50s, it's easier to meet people of the same age who share values.
2. Events based on common hobbies and hobbies make it easier to meet people with common hobbies.
   
3. It's efficient and efficient to meet many people in a short time.
   
4. Professional support or professional support may be available.
   
5. Try to be proactive and speak to us.
   
6. Make sure you dress clean and have a smile.
   
7. Enjoy conversations, listen carefully to the other person's story and enjoy conversations.

3.2 Get professional help ・Go to a marriage agency

Marriage agencies are a reliable ally that allows you to find the right person for you while receiving professional support.

1. Our expert advice and professional advisors will introduce you to someone that suits your needs.
2. You can safely and securely manage your personal information, so you can find a match with peace of mind.
   
3. This brings together people who are seriously considering high-quality encounters and marriage, so you can expect high-quality encounters.
4. You will receive objective advice from a third-party perspective.
   
5. Our matchmaking setup professionals will help you set up and support your matchmaking.
6. If you have any problems during a relationship or when you are in a relationship, we will provide you with advice.
   
7. We offer generous support from marriage to marriage.

Hana

You can have opportunities by expanding the range of encounters. Let's move forward.

3.3 Get started easily ・Go to matching apps

Matching apps are used by many people as matchmaking tools that you can easily start on your smartphone.

1. With ease and smartphones, you can start looking for a match anytime, anywhere.
   
2. Many encounters and there are many registered users, so there are many opportunities to meet people.
   
3. You can search for a match at your own pace or at your own pace.
   
4. Carefully create a profile and profile to show off your charm.
   
5. Take your time to deepen your interactions with messages and messages.
   
6. Meet and meet in person and check each other out.
   
7. Protecting your personal information: Be careful when handling your personal information.

3.4 Introductions from trustworthy people ・Rely on friends and acquaintances

Referring to your trusted friends and acquaintances can not only help you meet people with peace of mind, but can also help you meet new people.

1. We are introduced to you by acquaintances, so you can meet people with peace of mind.
   
2. Having common topics and introducers makes it easier to find common topics.
   
3. You can expect natural encounters and natural encounters.
   
4. You can receive support from those around you and those around you.

3.5 Smile and act proactively every day

New encounters may lie in your daily life. By taking a positive attitude, expand your chances of meeting people.

1. You can meet friends who share hobbies with circles and common hobbies.
   
2. You can seek new encounters while volunteering and contributing to society.
   
3. You can expand your interactions by gaining new knowledge, including events, seminars and more.
   
4. By local activities and interacting with local people, you may encounter locally rooted encounters.
5. By actively going out and going out, increase your chances of meeting people.

Chapter 4: Connecting your heart and mind – Build warm communication

Once you have had wonderful encounters, the next step is to build warm communication that connects your heart.

4.1 Listen carefully to the other person's story - The listener is loved and good

Listening to someone carefully is the basis for building trust and good communication.

1. Be interested, be interested in the other person's story and listen seriously.
   
2. Be sympathetic and sympathetic to the other person's feelings, and show an attitude of empathy.
   
3. A good response and moderate response give the impression that you are listening properly.
   
4. Ask questions that delve deeper into the other person's story.
   
5. Listen until the end, and don't interrupt the other person's conversation, and listen carefully to it all the way to the end.

Hayashi

Men feel safe and comfortable with women who are good listeners. Your likeability will improve. Try it

4.2 Express your honest feelings ・ Open your heart and talk

Expressing your feelings honestly is important to close the gap between you and build a deeper relationship.

1. Avoid expressing your feelings in words, and avoid ambiguous expressions, and express your feelings in words carefully.
   
2. Avoid honest feelings, lies and lies, and express your honest feelings.
   
3. Express your gratitude and gratitude in words.
   
4. Praise/Find the good points of the other person and praise them specifically.
   
5. Share emotions and share emotions such as joy and sadness deepen your bond.

4.3 Cherish humor - Have conversations filled with smiles

Humorous conversations soften the atmosphere and create a relaxed atmosphere.

1. A smile gives the other person a friendly atmosphere.
   
2. Enjoy the conversation with humor and sometimes humor.
   
3. Don't hurt others - Humor does not hurt or make others uncomfortable.
4. Read the atmosphere of the place, read the atmosphere of the place and use appropriate humor.
   
5. Try to have light conversations and cheerful and light conversations.

Me

Conversations that read the atmosphere give the other person an intellectual and elegant atmosphere.

4.4 Finding the good points of the other person – a positive perspective

Rather than focusing on the other person's weaknesses, you can build a better relationship by focusing on the strengths.

1. Praise your strengths, find the strengths of others, and praise them specifically.
   
2. Accepting weaknesses/Understanding and accepting that people have weaknesses.
   
3. Respect for differences and respect values ​​and ways of thinking that are different from your own.
   
4. Be respectful and respectful of others.
   
5. Build relationships that encourage growth and encourage each other's growth.

Chapter 5: Pay attention to your appearance - Outfits that make you shine

Of course, it is important to hone your inner self, but by paying attention to your appearance, you can approach your marriage with more confidence.

5.1 Be aware of cleanliness – first impression that gives you a sense of trust

Cleanliness is one of the most important factors in making a good impression on others.

1. Groom and maintain a clean state by adjusting your hairstyle and clothing.
   
2. Cut your nails short and keep them clean.
   
3. Be careful of bad breath and bad breath, and brush your teeth carefully.
   
4. Keep perfumes and perfumes under your belt.
   
5. If you get body odor or sweat, change clothes frequently or use deodorant.

5.2 Enjoy your own fashion - Express your personality

1. Enjoy your own unique fashion that suits your age and body shape.
   
2. Choose a design that covers your body shape and covers your body shape.
   
3. By choosing materials and high-quality materials, you can create an elegant look.
   
4. Incorporate colors that suit you and colors that suit you.
   
5. TPO and try to dress according to the situation.
   
6. Let's incorporate trends and trends in a moderate way and enjoy fashion.

5.3 Try to exercise moderately - Balance your mind and body

Moderate exercise is important to maintain mental and physical health and to further improve your marriage search.

1. Make exercise and exercise a habit。
   
2. Make sure to eat a well-balanced diet.
   
3. Get enough sleep and get plenty of sleep.
   
4. Have a health check and regular health check.
   
5. Stress Relief: Find the right stress relief method for you.

5.4 Cherish your smile and have an attractive smile

A smile is one of the most effective ways to bring out your charm to the fullest.

1. Smile and be conscious of your smile in your daily life.
   
2. By raising the corners of your mouth and mouth, you can create a more attractive smile.
   
3. Practice smiling and practice smiling while looking in the mirror.
   
4. Enjoying it with the heart and having fun will create a natural smile.

Smiles are contagious, and smiles have a positive effect on those around you.

Chapter 6: Let's move slowly - cherish yourself, don't panic

Matchmaking is not always going smoothly. Don't rush, take your time and take care of yourself.

6.1 Don't be in a hurry – Slowly, patiently

Instead of panic about the outcome, let's continue to pursue a matchmaking process with a long-term perspective.

1. Don't seek too much results or seek too much results can make your mind feel tired.
   
2. Let's move on to find a match in the long term and in the long term.
   
3. Even when things don't go well, don't get too depressed.
   
4. If you don't panic or panic, you may not be able to make the right decisions.
   
5. Believe in yourself, believe in yourself, and move forward positively.

6.2 Don't blame yourself, and be kind and hard

If things don't go well or get tired, don't blaming yourself, but give them kindness and hard work.

1. If you don't deny yourself or blam yourself too much, you may lose confidence.
   
2. Give yourself kindly and consider yourself for your hard work.
   
3. Change your mood and refresh yourself.
   
4. Consultation Consulting with people around you can make you feel better.
   
5. Stay positive and positive.

6.3 Don't forget to have fun - Be positive

By having fun and not having to go through marriage search, you should be able to achieve better results.

1. By enjoying the game-like feel of a matchmaking game, you can reduce stress.
   
2. Enjoy meeting new people and meeting new people.
   
3. Enjoy improving yourself and improving yourself by improving yourself.
   
4. Enjoy events, events and parties.
   
5. Stay positive and positive.

A journey to woven into a calm future – happiness that is typical of you

For those in their 40s and 50s, looking for a match is a wonderful journey where you face yourself deeply and weave your heart and mind.

By cherishing past experiences and moving forward while shining your own charm, you will surely find a calm and heartwarming future awaits you.

May this article be a light that gently leans into your heart and shines hope for the future. Don't panic, don't give up, and grab happiness that is typical of you. I sincerely support you.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.