To foster good compassion, the path to liberation from suggestion and self-realization

Living in the centre of the right - what is good compassion?

We humans are unconsciously influenced by various things in our interactions with others. It's as if each of our brains are connected and exchanging information deep inside our consciousness, just like we share information through the Internet. The influence of people who are particularly pro-directed, such as parents, teachers, and people who are in close relationships, is deeply ingrained in our thoughts, emotions, and behavioral patterns, and sometimes leads us to self-negative emotions and behavior. This phenomenon is called "implication."

In order for us to be "good compassionate," it is essential that we are first in a happy state. This is a state where you can devote yourself to a job that you truly want to challenge yourself without feeling worried or anxious in your daily life. I feel a great sense of satisfaction in the situation and role I am in, and I can truly enjoy it. And it is a state where you can have a neutral perspective that does not affirm or deny others. Furthermore, it is only because you can trust your own possibilities that you can truly believe in others' possibilities.

When we are in such a happy state, we naturally emit positive energy and people gather around us who are pursuing happiness in the same way. Together with them, they use their own areas of expertise and exchange useful information, and naturally develop a collaborative relationship. In this way, we can grow and develop together.

However, in reality, many people are trapped in negative emotions such as, "I always compare myself to others," "I'm sure others will betray me anyway," "Life is only when I struggle," "After something fun, there is always pain awaiting me," and "I'm always worried." If you feel that way, it suggests that you may have some "indication" on yourself.

The true nature of the suggestion and messages from others

Surprisingly, many of the negative thoughts and feelings we have do not spring up from within us, but are instilled by "suggestions" from others. We unconsciously accept the suggestions of others as if they were our own ideas and replace them in our own minds.

Unfortunately, this mechanism of indication is rarely spoken in school education or social life. That's why many people misunderstand negative thoughts as part of their personality. However, we can live as neutral beings who do not affirm or deny ourselves. This is undeniable truth.

The key here is that this argument is never meant to blame others for their personality habits. We need to take responsibility for our own emotions and thoughts. But at the same time, we must not neglect to understand the impact that suggestions from others have on our spirits and to be free from them.

Mechanism of implication, information transmission and influence

Why do we receive suggestions from others? This is because in human relationships, they are easily influenced by the indications of people who have strong ability to communicate information, or "transmit"; In particular, it is the people who have a big impact on us, such as parents, teachers, and other close-knit people who have been involved. Their words and actions are deeply engraved in our minds, and unconsciously form patterns of actions and thought.

People who are particularly known as "good people" are particularly prone to suggestion because they tend to listen carefully to what the other person says. They listen to the other person's words and actively try to accept information, so they are easily unconsciously under the influence of the other person's suggestions.

Our brains have the ability to share information with others, like the Internet. That could be called a kind of telepathic ability. When the brain accesses certain information, it is more susceptible to those with stronger powers, that is, those with stronger communication skills.

For example, in parent-child relationships, most children are placed under the influence of their parents' words and actions. Children who are exposed to the words "No matter what you do," will be hinted at by their parents and begin to realize that they are not good at it. As a result, children repeatedly behave patterns that do not meet the expectations of their parents, and eventually become a catchphrase of "I'm not the only one..." and begin to think sensibly.

However, this does not mean that the child himself is really bad. Rather, parents make their children think so. This is because for parents, it is easier for them to make their children think so, and it will not separate them from their parents and make them manageable. Parents try to control their children by saying, "That's why I said that. You listen to what they say. You can't do anything. Stay by your parents."

The source of fear and suggestion of loneliness

The reason why parents give their children suggestions is often the feeling of "not wanting to be alone." For example, if a father has the true feeling that "I don't want my child to be promoted more than I am. If my child gets promoted better than me, I will be miserable," the child's brain will insist that "if I get promoted you, I will be unhappy." As a result, children will feel guilty when they are promoted, and they will start to deny themselves that they should not be the only ones who are happy. Getting promoted and being happy feels like a bad thing.

However, it is not the child who makes his child feel that "if he gets promoted, he will be unhappy." It is none other than a "father."

Also, when a mother whose marriage is not going well, she feels guilty about leaving her mother with the true feelings of "I don't want my daughter to get married. If she's gone, she has to face her loneliness. She can't stand being alone." It suggests that she doesn't want to be lonely. As a result, the daughter either stays single and does not leave her parents, or she becomes unstable after getting married, and tries to return to her parents' home.

In this way, even though you don't know why, the feelings of self-denial that you may be pitiful for some reason may be caused by the suggestions of someone other than yourself. This can be said to be a state in which you copy other people's feelings into your own brain and become someone else.

Chain of suggestion, learning and copying

Children grow up looking at their parents. Babies copy the movements of adults to learn the movements, and as they grow older, they copy the feelings of their parents and others. When children grow up watching parents who love studying, their children will become as fond of studying as their parents. The reason why parents and children experience similar thought and behavioral patterns is because the children under the influence of their parents are suggested.

Children are able to produce alpha waves that are suitable for learning from their brains, making it easy for parents or others to inspire them. One of the hints is that you have a similar way of speaking and thinking with your boss, who you always act with.

In other words, the feelings of someone other than yourself who have strong communication skills will be hinted at and have a strong influence on others, and eventually they will become part of that person's personality.

The hidden side of true feelings and words that are hidden

People's true feelings cannot be seen from the outside. People hide their true feelings. He plays a good parent, honestly thinking, "I don't want my children to be promoted better than I do." Then, pretending to be worried, "Society isn't as easy as you think. I'm worried about you," he repeatedly says and acts that disrupt the child's motivation.

The child then blams himself, saying, "My parents are worried about me. It's my fault for being a self-considering society," and loses his true sense of freedom. And then you choose to be near your parents.

Parents are human, so they unconsciously follow their instincts. Take action to avoid life-supporting dangers. Feelings like "I don't want to be alone" or "I don't want to be miserable" are actions that come from instinct to protect myself from loneliness. Even the person may not even notice the momentary feelings of loneliness that he encounters.

Marriage stolen is an action that arises from the mother's feelings of loneliness, saying that her son has been taken away. In order to fill his loneliness, he blames and bullies his wife, and tries to get his son back.

In the case of parents and children, parents may make suggestions to their children under the guise of education or discipline. It's fine if it's a good indication, but if the parent has a strong sense of loneliness, they give the child negative information to fill that loneliness and unconsciously try to put them under their control.

The first step towards liberation from suggestions and happiness

To break this negative spiral, as I mentioned at the beginning, it is most important to first become happy in yourself. By satisfying yourself and gaining happiness, you are less susceptible to negative suggestions from others.

To make yourself happy, you first need to listen to your inner voice and find out what you really want to do and what you really love. And by actively working on these things and putting your passion into them, you can gain a sense of fulfillment and happiness.

It is also important to affirm yourself and appreciate yourself. We are all unique and have incredible talent and potential. Finding your strengths and strengths and developing them will help you gain confidence.

Furthermore, it is important to stop comparing yourself to others and grow at your own pace. We all have different personalities and grow differently. Rather than comparing yourself to others, you can increase your self-esteem by comparing yourself to your past self and realizing that you are growing even little by little.

And the most important thing is to be grateful. As we live, we are supported and helped by a variety of people. Having appreciation will help you deepen your connections with those around you and build richer relationships.

By making ourselves happy, we can emit positive energy and have a positive impact on those around us. And we can grow and develop together.

Liberation from suggestion is the first step towards self-realization. By believing in our own potential and acting proactively, we can live a happier and more fulfilling life.

Summary: Good compassion is born from self-love

In order to have good compassion, it is essential to first love and cherish yourself. By realizing and freeing us from suggestions from others, we can unlock our full potential. And by being happy yourself, you can have a positive impact on those around you and grow together. "Good compassion" can be said to be born from self-love. Taking care of yourself leads to compassion for others.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.