A maiden who conquer Valentine's Day with psychology as his ally

How to see love is psychology

Find a love that is unique to you As Valentine approaches, the city is surrounded by a romantic atmosphere. The shop is lined with cute chocolates, and the happy smiles of lovers are filled with lovely lovers.

Whenever you see such a scene, some people may feel their hearts fluttering, thinking, "I want to have a wonderful love too." "I want to have a boyfriend by Valentine's Day!" is a very natural and wonderful feeling.

But let's pause and think about it for a moment. Love is not something that someone can "create" with, but something that is slowly nurtured by the heart and mind that is close to each other.

Leave your panic aside, why not go on a journey to find a love that is unique to you? This time, we will also use our knowledge of psychology to explore ways to make love come true more effectively.

1. Use mental warm-up exercises and psychology to sharpen your antennae for "love"

Before you begin your love journey, start by doing some mental warm-up exercises. It's time to take your time to face your own heart. By incorporating a psychological perspective, you can deepen your self-understanding and create a foundation for achieving love.

"I love you" antennae - Law of similarity and law of complementarity

What kind of people do you attract? Think of your ideal type: appearance, personality, values.

1. In psychology, the "law of similarity" and "law of complementarity" are known as factors that attract people.
2. The "law of similarity" means that you are attracted to people who have a lot in common with you. When you meet people who have similar hobbies and values, you will likely feel a sense of affinity.
   
3. The "law of complementarity" means being attracted to people who have something they don't have. Sometimes you find yourself attracted to a different perspective or advantage.
   
4. Knowing the rules can help you understand what kind of people you are likely to be attracted to and what kind of people you suit.
   
5. Practice and actively visit places where you can meet people with common hobbies and interests, and try to find common ground in conversation. Additionally, by actively interacting with people of different types of people, you may be able to discover new charms.

Respect your own personality and increase your self-esteem

Have you ever felt so bad that you wanted a boyfriend that you pretended or forced yourself to do something? Love is something that cultivates people who accept you as you are.

1. In psychology, it is said that people with high self-esteem look full of self-esteem and attractive.
   
2. Let's cherish the things we like, what we are good at, what we cherish... such as "personality." It is also effective to remember past successful experiences and reaffirm your strengths.
   
3. Practice: Get into the habit of writing down three good points every day. Even small things are fine. By focusing on your actions and good personality, such as "I was able to spend today with a smile" or "I was able to be kind to someone," you can increase your self-esteem.

Try to set small goals and goal setting theory

It's great to be enthusiastic about finding a boyfriend by Valentine's Day, but it's also recommended to set small goals, such as "I want to get along with the people I'm interested in" or "I want to increase new encounters."

1. According to goal-setting theory in psychology, setting concrete and achievable goals makes it easier to maintain motivation and take action.
   
2. Practice: Set specific action goals, such as "talking to three new people a week" and "greeting people you're interested in with a smile every day." It is also important to praise yourself as you achieve your goals.

2. Open the door to encounters - Effective communication through psychology

Once you're ready, try opening the door to meeting people. By using your knowledge of psychology, you can communicate more effectively and close the gap between you and others.

Try visiting a place of interest - Simple contact effect

Hobby events, workshops, local social gatherings... Get courage and try visiting places that interest you at even the slightest interest.

1. According to the "simple contact effect" in psychology, it is said that over and over, it becomes easier to develop a sense of affinity and affection.
   
2. Practice: Try visiting places that interest you, not just once. Having continuous contact can deepen your relationship.

The benefits of self-disclosure, making use of the online world

Online communities and matching apps can also help you meet people. However, it is important to choose a reliable service without rushing.

Carefully create a profile and convey your charm to the fullest.

1. In psychology, "self-disclosure" is known to be extremely effective in increasing intimacy with others. By gradually sharing your information with others, it will be easier for them to open up.
   
2. In your practice and profile, write down your hobbies and values ​​in detail. When exchanging messages, it is also important to ask questions in a way that encourages the other person to share their thoughts and feelings little by little.

The principle of social proof that cherishes connections with friends

Be proactive in attending friends gatherings.

1. Your friends may be able to bring you wonderful encounters.
   
2. According to the Psychology Principles of Social Proof, listen to the actions and opinions that many people support.
   
3. I tend to decide that I'm right too. If your friends trust you, you can feel safe treating them.
   
4. Practice: Not only do you ask your friends to introduce you to someone good, but also actively participate in friend gatherings and expand your new network of contacts.

Try to talk actively and mirroring effects

If you're interested, try to get courage and talk to them.

Just greet someone with a smile and say hello "Hello" is the first step to a wonderful encounter.

1. In psychology, there is something called the "mirroring effect."
   
2. By consciously imitating the other person's gestures, expressions, and how they speak, it will make them more likely to feel an affinity for you.
   
3. During practice and conversation, try casually imitating the other person's words and expressions. Additionally, listening carefully to the other person and showing empathy can help you close your mind.

3. Deepen relationships with Valentine's Day, before and after, psychology

This is your chance to foster wonderful encounters on Valentine's Day and on the day before and after. Use your psychology knowledge to deepen your relationships more effectively.

Enjoy Valentine's Day event - Suspension bridge effect

Join a Valentine's Day event in town or a Valentine's Day party with friends.

1. The "suspension bridge effect" in psychology makes it easier to develop romantic feelings for someone you meet in a thrilling situation.
   
2. The special atmosphere of the event may be a good opportunity to advance the relationship between the two of you.
   
3. By actively enjoying practical and event events and sharing the situation, you can close your distance with others.

Try a casual approach and the principle of reciprocity

If anyone is interested, you might want to give them homemade chocolate or a small gift.

1. The "principle of reciprocity" in psychology is the psychology of having to give back when something is done. By showing your affection from you, it will be easier for the other person to like you.
   
2. Practice: When giving presents, it is also important to express your gratitude and affection in words. However, it is recommended to give it a light gift so that the other person does not feel like a burden.

Laws of consistency that nurture relationships after Valentine's Day

Stay in touch with people you met on Valentine's Day.

1. The "law of consistency" in psychology is the psychology of people wanting to be consistent in their own words and actions.
   
2. Once you have a relationship that keeps in touch, it will be easier for you to continue in the future.
   
3. Practice and as a thank you for Valentine's Day, stay in touch and invite them to eat or play.

4. Don't forget to improve yourself and improve your self-confidence through psychology

In order to attract wonderful encounters, it is important to make your appearance shine both inside and outside. Use your knowledge of psychology to help you improve your confidence.

Polishing your appearance and placebo effect

Make sure to wear clean clothes and hairstyles. It's also fun to research makeup and fashion that suits you.

1. The "placebo effect" in psychology is a phenomenon in which even if it is ineffective, when used with the belief that it is effective, it actually shows effects.
   
2. Believing yourself as "good" will help you shine and gain confidence from within.
   
3. Practice: Every time you look in the mirror, praise what you like. A confident expression will attract people around you.

Growth mindset that polishes your inner self

Be proactive in what interests you are, such as reading, watching movies, or going around museums.

1. The "growth mindset" in psychology refers to the state in which one believes that one's abilities can be developed through effort.
   
2. Gaining new knowledge and experience is the key to increasing confidence and becoming a more attractive person.
   
3. Practice and Absorb your knowledge by reading books in areas of interest or taking part in seminars.

Cherish your smile and emotional transmission

Being a smile is the best magic that attracts everyone around you.

1. In psychology, "emotional contagion" is the fact that a person's emotions are transmitted to those around them.
   
2. By keeping a smile, everyone around you will smile and create a positive atmosphere.
3. Practice: Make sure to consciously raise the corners of your mouth and spend time with a smile.

5. Don't rush, don't push yourself too hard, and control stress with psychology

Love is not something to grasp in a hurry. What's important is to be yourself and be natural. Use your psychology knowledge to control stress and continue your love journey in peace.

Cognitive behavioral therapy without rushing results

You don't have to be obsessed with finding a boyfriend by Valentine's Day.

1. Cognitive behavioral therapy in psychology involves reviewing one's own way of thinking and behavioral patterns.
   
2. It is a stress-relieving treatment. If you feel anxious, try switching from the idea of ​​"I definitely have to get a boyfriend" to the idea of ​​"I'd be happy if there's a wonderful encounter."
   
3. Practice: Recognise your thinking habits and turn your negative thoughts into positive thoughts.

Don't be afraid of failure and increase resilience

Even if things don't work, there's no need to be depressed.

1. Failure can be a source of growth. Resilience in psychology refers to the ability to recover from difficult situations.
2. It is important to look back on past failures and find positive aspects of what you can learn from them.
3. Practice: When you fail, instead of blaming yourself, be aware of learning from your mistakes and then using them in the next step.

Take care of yourself and self-care

It's great to fall in love, but don't forget to take care of yourself. "Self-care" in psychology refers to actions that help maintain physical and mental health.

1. Respect your feelings, avoid excessive love, and make sure you have enough time to rest and refresh yourself.
2. Create relaxing time by listening to your favorite music, ignite aromas, and enriching bathing time.

Finally, Valentine's Day is a feeling of love

Valentine's Day is a wonderful opportunity to become conscious of love. But the most important thing is to listen carefully to your own heart and find a love that is unique to you.

With knowledge of psychology as your side, enjoy a leisurely journey without rushing, without rushing. And if you have a wonderful encounter, please cherish and cultivate those relationships.

I sincerely hope that your love will be filled with happiness.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.