Relationships are mirrors that color our lives, and paradises bring friends and choose a path to grow together

The feathers bring friends, what lies beyond

"Animals invite friends." This ancient term does not simply refer to coincidences or superficial commonalities. It's like a deeper, more complicated gravitational force that works in the unconscious realm. The background to the natural attraction of those who are close to each other and similar people is intertwined with invisible threads, such as shared values, hidden desires, and unsolved issues. But can we simply accept this phenomenon as a mere coincidence? Or can we use it as a compass to make conscious choices and build a better future?

The environment will dye your mind, unconscious filters and influence

The answer is clearly the latter. We are strongly influenced by people who spend time together, consciously or unconsciously. This is not simply a matter of similar language and hobbies and preferences. Our thought patterns, our emotions, and our fundamental attitudes towards life are gradually and certainly shaped by our surroundings. Just as colorless, transparent water takes on the tint of liquid poured into it, our minds are eroded by the surrounding environment through daily interactions and transformed unwittingly.

Yogananda Master's Warning: The companions who meet him will divide their fate

Rev. Paramahansa Yogananda warns of the magnitude of this influence in very strong words. "Whether to become a saint or a sinner is largely up to the people you are with," this statement may sound radical at first glance. But when you think about it, it really speaks to me how deeply and fundamentally our relationships influence our lives. We become mirrors for those around us, and the people around us are mirrors for us.

The analogy of the jacket - the mind is a delicate sponge that absorbs the environment

Yogananda will also explain the effects using concrete examples. "If you leave your jacket in the room of people smoking, your jacket will soon smell like a cigarette. On the other hand, if you leave it in the garden outside in the flowerbed, when you put it in the room later, you will see a fresh air and the scent of flowers. The same goes for the heart. Your thoughts will absorb the vibrations of the people you interact with."

This vivid image shows how sensitive our minds are and susceptible to the influence of our environment. Just as a sponge sucks in water, our minds unconsciously absorb the surrounding atmosphere, emotions, and patterns of thought. The jackets placed in a room filled with cigarette smoke, and as if they were to sing along with pessimistic people, there is a risk that our minds will also be tingly tainted by pessimistic thoughts. Conversely, when the jackets placed in flowerbeds, which are filled with the scent of flowers, interact with cheerful and enjoyable people, our hearts are also filled with bright, positive emotions.

The chain of pessimism, a prison of hope that robs the mind

Let's take a deeper look at pessimism here. Pessimism is a deep-rooted belief system that "this world is full of evil and misery," and pessimists refer to people who interpret the world based on that belief. They tend to look at the worse side of things rather than the good side, and find it difficult to have hope for the future. Pessimism is not just a temporary emotion, it is a chronic state of mind and is closely linked to mental illnesses such as depression. When you are trapped in pessimistic thinking, your negative views of yourself, the world, and the future become fixed, and your free thoughts and actions are restricted, as if you were chained.

Once you're ingrained in a pessimistic way of thinking, you tend to avoid new challenges and stick to maintaining the status quo. Because they are always assuming the worst and are extremely afraid of failing. In addition, in human relationships, people are prone to doubt and distrust, making it difficult to build healthy relationships of trust with others. As a result, we become deeply socially isolated and fall into a negative spiral of becoming increasingly trapped in pessimistic thoughts.

Meet people with development, compass of the heart, door to the future

So how can we break out of this negative spiral and build more rich and fulfilling relationships? The answer lies in building new relationships, by carefully observing others and deepening connections with people who feel "developable."

What are the specific characteristics of a person with development? It is a person who is always willing to strive to acquire new knowledge and skills, and is full of motivation to pursue personal growth. They are not resting on the status quo, but are constantly striving to overcome their limits and unlock new possibilities. Also, people who have clear goals and make steady efforts towards them can be said to be people who are capable of developing. Even when faced with difficult situations, they never give up and endure and strive to achieve their goals.

Furthermore, people who respect others' opinions and actively engage in constructive discussions are also highly proficient people. They understand that their opinions are not always correct and try to capture things from a more multifaceted perspective by incorporating the perspective of others. And those with the creativity and flexibility to try to find solutions without giving up even in difficult situations will also be valuable partners to grow together. They have high problem-solving skills and have the wisdom and courage to overcome difficult situations.

Finally, people who never forget to be grateful and value the people around them are definitely people who are prone to development. They always remember to be grateful to those around them, treating them with compassion and kindness. And those who can truly celebrate the success of others and share joy together will become irreplaceable beings that will greatly promote our own growth.

The joy and enhancement of each other's growth together enriches life

Actively interacting with people with development will inspire us as well, grow in the same way, realize our potential, and make our lives more enriched and fulfilled. Their positive energy is a powerful catalyst for us to unleash our own hidden talents and abilities and develop new possibilities.

However, the important thing here is not only to wait for us to meet people who are prone to development, but we ourselves are always conscious of self-growth and not neglecting our efforts. Human relationships are not one-way, but two-way, and they truly show their value by inspiring and enhancing each other. To do this, it is essential that we continue to learn, strive to develop ourselves, not forget our gratitude, and value the people around us.

It is also important to be proactive in seeking new encounters, not bound by past relationship trauma and stereotypes. It is important to learn lessons from past experiences, but being too attached to past wounds can lead to missing new opportunities and closing the door of possibilities. By constantly seeking new encounters with an open mind and experiencing diverse values, our vision will expand and our human depth will increase.

A mirror that reflects your life and a relationship that reflects your ideal self

Relationships are like a mirror that reflects our lives. The type of person we interact with and what kind of relationships we build will clearly reflect our inner self, and the quality of our lives will be greatly influenced. That is why we need to carefully choose relationships and build truly valuable relationships that allow us to grow with each other, rather than simply viewing them.

Questioning yourself and the first step to carving out the future

Finally, ask yourself a question. What kind of person are you dating now? Does that relationship encourage your growth and enrich your life? If not, what kind of relationships do you want to build and what future do you want to create from now on?

Why not use this question as a starting point for self-exploration, and take the first step towards choosing relationships more consciously and building a more fulfilling future? The feathers invite friends. That is why we need to seriously consider what kind of companions we should deal with and build a relationship where we can grow together in order to get closer to our ideal self. And that process should be an irreplaceable treasure that will make our lives richer and more brilliant.

Conclusion: Toward a bright future with friends who will walk together

We are all unfinished and have the potential to grow. And in the course of this growth, relationships become an essential and important element. It is because we have friends who learn together, laugh together, and overcome difficulties that we can become stronger, smarter, and kinder. Now, let's find friends who will walk together in their ideal future and create a bright future together.

References: Dialogue with Paramahansa Yogananda

◎ Dialogue with Paramahansa Yogananda

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.