Women's worries are not liked by people you like and people you don't care about

A thorough analysis of blocking the belief that love will not go well

[Chapter 1] Why are people who like you not like you? Its complex mechanism

First, let's dig deeper into the mechanisms of why people you like are not liked by the people you like. This is often a complicated factor that cannot be solved simply by saying "it's not compatible."

1.1 Review the approach method

1. excessive approach
   and trying to convey a positive attitude towards someone, putting pressure on the other person or ending up acting like a stalker. An excessive approach can make the other person feel "heavy" and create vigilance .
   
2. 
   This is a case where people are hesitant to show off their self because they feel like they are
   under-approached, "I'm not the only You may become frustrated in front of the person you like, and not only will you not be able to demonstrate your true charm, but you may also be misunderstood by the other person as "maybe they're not interested."
   
3. Unbalanced approach
   This is a case where people approach the other person based solely on their own terms, without considering the situation or feelings of the other person. For example, contacting people frequently when they are busy, or unilaterally talking about topics they are not interested in can have the opposite effect.

1.2 The impact of a lack of self-esteem

1. Lack of confidence If you don't have confidence in yourself, you may not be able to act proudly in front of the person you like, and the other person may misunderstand you as "unattractive."
   
2. self-
   deprecating words like "I'm not me anyway," people around you may also see you as undervalued.
   
3. Passive attitude:
   You may miss out on the chance to fall in love because you fear taking positive action yourself, and you will always wait for the other person to take action.
   
4. Fear of rejection
   If you have experienced hurt in a past relationship, you tend to avoid a positive approach because you are afraid of being rejected.

1.3 Reconfirm your compatibility with your opponent

1. Disconformity in values
   ​​If fundamental values ​​differ, it is difficult to understand each other and deepen relationships.
   
2. a mismatched personality
   , you may be prone to stress and may not last long even if you are together.
   
3. Different views on love
   If you think about love and have different views on love, your expectations are likely to be discrepant and misunderstand each other.
   
4. the timing is mismatched
   , even if the partner is compatible, the relationship may not progress if the timing of each other is not right in the right time for love.

 1.4 The impact of past love experiences on current love

1.  Traumatizing
   Past Love You can become traumatized and become timid about your next love.
   
2. Failure patterns
   You may unconsciously repeat patterns that have not worked out in past love affairs.
   
3. Improving your ideal situation
   In past love affairs, your ideal partner may become fixed, and the hurdles you need from your real partner may become too high.

[Chapter 2] Why are people who are not interested in them like you? The surprising reason

On the other hand, why do people who are not particularly interested in you get a crush on you? There may be some surprising reasons hidden there.

2.1 When your charm is fully realized

1. staying natural
   and not being nervous, staying as normal, you will be able to maximize your charm and attract the other person's heart.
   
2. a relaxed attitude
   , you may look like a relaxed attitude and make a good impression on others.
   
3. Friendly
   Touching someone in a relaxed state makes them feel friendly and closer to each other.

2.2 Possibility of matching the type of person you like

1. Appearance preferences
   Simply put, it's possible that the other person likes your appearance and is attracted to you.
   
2. Personality preferences
   It is possible that your partner likes your personality and feels comfortable being with you.
   
3. 
   It is possible that you are attracted to you who have something you don't have for your complex For example, you may be attracted to you who have a bright and kindness that you don't have.

2.3 Maybe it's a misunderstanding? Re-examine the signs of goodwill

1. 
   It is possible that you are unaware of the signs that the person you overlook is liking
   .
2. 
   You may mistakenly think that you like you when the person you misunderstood is just being kind
   .
3. and say
   , "I'm not the only one anyway...", you may overinterpretate the other person's slight kindness.

[Chapter 3] Steps to remove the blockage of love that doesn't work

So, how can you remove the mental block of "love won't go well" and get a happier relationship? From here, we will explain the specific steps.

3.1 Objectively recognize your state of mind

1. Self-analysis:
   Write down on a piece of paper such as "When do you have negative feelings about love?" and "What kind of mistakes have you made in past love?" and do your own self-analysis.
   
2. Record your emotions
   by keeping a diary of what you feel and think about love, and keep track of your feelings and feelings, and make sure you understand your own state of mind.
   
3. objectively looking
   at your own emotions and behavior, you may be able to see areas for improvement.

3.2 Heal past trauma and move forward

1. Professional Support
   If you are unable to solve the problem yourself, consider seeking support from a professional such as a counselor.
   
2. Self-acceptance:
   Stop blaming yourself and accepting your past self.
   
3. 
   Instead of simply regretting past mistakes that teach you past experiences

3.3 Improve self-esteem and regain confidence

1. that recognizes your strengths
   and gain confidence.
   
2. to accumulate small success experiences
   , and gain confidence by achieving them.
   
3. Use words that will enhance your self-esteem,
   such as "I can" or "I am attractive."

3.4 Abandoning stereotypes about love

1. 
   Instead of looking for a perfect person who
   doesn't stick to your ideal partner
2. 
   There is not one form of love
   that abandons the idea that love should be like this Find a shape that is comfortable for you.
3. not afraid of failure
   , nothing will start. Have the courage and take a step forward.

3.5 Seize opportunities for love with positive actions

1. improve yourself
   , but you should also improve your inner self and become an attractive person.
   
2. can take action
   and increase your interactions with the opposite sex.
   
3. 
   Be sure to listen carefully to the person who
   will improve your communication skills
4. who maintains a moderate sense of distance
   , your relationship may not go well. Let's deepen our relationships while maintaining an appropriate sense of distance.
   
5. Don't rush
   and don't seek results right away, and slowly build relationships. Don't be impatient.

3.6 Enrich your love life and live a balanced life

1. Enjoy
   your hobbies Find what you like and what you will be enthralled with and enjoy. Spending time with friends who value interactions with friends will soothe your heart and give you a positive feeling.
   
2. Dedicated to work and studies
   By devoted to work and studies, you will experience your own growth and lead to confidence.

Summary: Remove your mental block and create a love story that is unique to you

Blocking the belief that "love won't go well" will be a major obstacle to your romance. However, that wall is never unbreakable.

By following the steps introduced in this article, facing yourself, and removing your heart's blockage, you will definitely be able to find a happy relationship.
In love, efforts don't always pay off.

However, by honing yourself and taking action proactively, you will be more likely to lead to positive outcomes.
Don't rush, trust yourself, and move on slowly.
I sincerely support your love life.

Shokey Hayashi

Exorcist/Radionics Technique Researcher

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Born in Aomori Prefecture in 1965, he has been suffering from troubles, illnesses and injuries caused by spiritual phenomena since childhood. However, one day, when he was 20 years old, he attended an event, had a mysterious experience at the venue, and was hit by lightning energy from the heavens, as if piercing the spinal cord from his brain, and his psychic abilities blossomed. He then began studying psychology and psychiatry, and now he has combined psychiatry and consciousness engineering. Established "Radionics exorcism" using our own radionics techniques. "It's possible to treat your fortune" beyond exorcism, memorial service, and healing.